Sunday, June 17, 2007
On the way home (Dial-Up Warning)
Travels over the weekend
It was a time for remembering fun things we did, memories of family members now gone and share news of our lives as they happen in the place where we all say our family started. Uncle J, Aunt L, B, B and J had a great relationship inside their family and with my family and for that I am grateful.
I also want to thank my Aunt W for taking such great care of many of my family members grave sites. This one is from my sister and Great Aunt, however, my Mom's and other Aunt's look great as well.
Happy Father's Day, Dad
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-c_wgKAs-8
Friday, June 08, 2007
New Responsibilities
Sunday, June 03, 2007
With A home for
A has her lifeguard job, she coaches the pool swim team (and gets paid for it) and works at a local relatively fast food restaurant called Cook-Out at night when the pool is closed. By at night, this is from 9PM or so until close. These folks close at 2AM Sunday through Wednesday and until 4AM on Thursday, Friday and Saturday. A gets home around 3AM on some days and around 5AM when she works the weekends.
When she is not working, she is studying or sleeping. The best part about this is she has very little time to get into too much trouble. She is either working, studying or sleeping.
I think that A is getting exposed to more of America than she expected. Cook-out is a drive through/walk-up only type restaurant with no indoor seating on a busy corner. She is the only person of her race working at this restaurant. She has seen: many people ordering at the drive through with guns in their laps, some pretty wicked fights in a parking lot across the street and even a gunshot or two from her perch at the restaurant. This restaurant is only about 3 miles from our home, yet a world away.
The place has a significant safety program in place for closers at 3/4/5 AM to prevent possible problems. All of the money goes into the safe that cannot be opened by any single person. Also, when it is time to leave, some of the people go to their cars while others remain in the building. Once safely in their cars, locked, cell phones in hand and started, the others then head for their cars.
It has been really interesting to hear the stories that A brings home, even at 5 AM. I told you the drama would increase, but you did not believe me.
Hope your week is a good one.
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
The New VW Passat
Tuesday, May 29, 2007
Car Situation - C has wheels
On eBay, I found a 1999 VW Jetta Wolfsburg Edition, green in color, used by a college student that just graduated from Villanova near Philadelphia. He was selling it because he did not want the hassle of moving it to Las Vegas where he was moving to take a job. It had a couple of minor issues, but in general seemed OK. Needless to say, I won the auction. This is Sunday at about 2PM. I left my phone number and he called me at about 2:30PM.
He indicated that he was leaving Philly on Monday at 5PM. I told him that I would check into a few things and get back with him, but could he make arrangements to have a friend complete the transaction in a couple of days.
With gasoline prices as they are, it would take about $150 worth of gas to drive to Philly and back for the van, plus 16 hours of K and my time. I looked into flying, but thought on short notice, they were going to get me. I was wrong. Southwest had flights from Raleigh to Philly for $58 ($49 plus taxes), so I booked my flight. I also ordered the parts needed to fix the known issues. I called the seller, making arrangements to be met at the airport at 1:30PM the next day (Monday).
While my plane was a few minutes late, he met me at baggage claim and we drove off to the National Car Rental car return. His parents were in town for his graduation, and were returning their rental car. He, his parents and I completed the transaction in the parking lot of the National Car Rental. I left for home by 2:30PM and they took the shuttle to catch their planes.
I got home around 11PM, going down the Eastern Shore of the Chesapeake Bay on 301 to avoid the DC evening drive time. As I had not been down that way, it was a very scenic drive. My computer GPS guided me the whole way, more for knowing that I was going the right direction than actual directing.
As a potential interesting footnote, I found out that the guy I bought the car from was going to try to make it in the world of professional poker. When I Googled his name, he already has a reputation and has won a significant amount of money in only a few tournaments. He is going to do the WSOP for a year, then off to grad school for an MBA in Finance. I had no clue, nor really cared.
So we are now a 3 VW family. A and C drive Jettas and I drive a Passat. All with manual transmissions. We will NOT be trading in the van for a Microbus or Bug, thank you very much. Happy motoring.
Update on the car situation 2
We were down to two cars with spring break a coming. Then the transmission went thump in the van and we were down to one. $1500 and a week later, we were back with two.
For many years, I have wanted to rebuild/replace an engine in a car. I thought it would be fun and stress relieving. Well, I was cruising eBay in mid-April and saw this car. It needed an engine and could be had for a decent price, so I purchased it.
The car, a 1999 VW Passat with a V6 engine, had the timing belt break, doing valve damage. I thought it would be a great learning experience to rebuild this engine. So I bought the how to repair book, and set about tearing into the engine. When viewing the engine heads, all of the exhaust valves were bent from contact with the pistons. One intake valve was visibly bent, but the others seemed fine.
I attempted to purchase used heads from an automotive recycler unsuccessfully, so the heads were taken to the local machine shop. $600 later, the heads were as good as new. The reassembly could begin.
Keep in mind that during this time, work had me travel to NY for a trade show for a full week and then give a tour of industrial and biopharm facilities for my Brazilian counterparts, again for another full week.
The reassembly went rather well once the heads were in my possession. Everything went back together extremely well. Along with the rebuilt heads, I put a new timing belt, water pump, thermostat, tensioner pulley, idler pulley, and upper control arm on the car. When the time came to fire up the car, it idled well. No check engine lights.
As K and I went for a test drive down our street, as the RPM got to 1400, the engine would buck, hesitate and in general raise havoc, the check engine light came on as well. The engine reached operating temperature fine and immediate turn back for home occurred.
I purchased a $22 cable and $100 software for my computer for doing diagnosis taking a couple of days while the materials arrived. Doing some analysis of the the trouble code using the Internet VW forums, it was determined that the throttle body electronic positioner was not communicating with the main engine computer.
I took out the offending part, cleaned it and re-installed it. Same problem. Did it again, slightly better, but same problem. After several posts on the VW forum (both VWVortex and PassatWorld) someone suggested a different cleaning method, but that I was definitely on the correct part.
So I tried their method and... no improvement. I ordered a new Throttle Body with sensor (that is the only way they come) and began the wait for it to arrive. While waiting, the old throttle body and sensor were disassembled by me as I had nothing left to loose. If I broke it or was unable to fix it, the new one would be there in a day or two. If I fixed it, then I could return the new part for a small restocking fee. I completely disassembled the position sensor, cleaned it with electrical contact cleaner, throttle body cleaner and used a can of computer compressed air to blow out any residue. The part was left to dry completely overnight.
The next day, as the old part was being installed, the new part arrived. I finished installing the completely cleaned old part and checked through my computer that the part was "visible" to the engine computer. It was, so the existing "Check Engine Light" codes were cleared and the engine was tested. It met with initial success in the carport, but would it stand up to being driven.
So K and I went on a short, 3-mile, test drive and the car drove wonderfully. No problems. Later today we will get license plates and insurance for the car so it can be street legal. The next step will be to do a 15-20 mile test drive just to make sure before I go gallivanting around the countryside using this as my daily driver.
The Tradewinds, they are a blowin'


As always, it is good to see them as we enjoy lively conversation regarding all topics, past, future and current. We relived many of my childhood escapades for my daughters, and shared some escapades by siblings that were least embarrassing. We had a great time.
They are off to see the Biltmore Estate in Asheville, NC before winding their way back home to PA.
Thanks for stopping by, travel safe.
Wednesday, May 16, 2007
Cuz, It was great to see ya
K and Sh had to go to to a school ensemble concert, so I did not see much of them early, but I stayed long enough to get some conversation afterward.
We discussed much, solved many of the world's problems and in general enjoyed the company. Thanks ME and K for the delightful evening.
Wednesday, May 09, 2007
Wow, It is May the 8th
1) Interphex was Interphex. As all trade shows are being attended less, so it was with Interphex. There were abour 30% fewer people there this year than last. Tuesday and Wednesday were ok from a people walking by standpoint, but Thursday was very slow. Fortunately for me, my company had a couple of new people with us at the show and asked me to take them around to some of the show to explain how our equipment works in systems. That part was fun.
2) I want to thank my boss for the cold he shared with everyone at Interphex. I have the left over sinus congestion but am otherwise back.
3) Last week, it was my responsibility to help show some of my Brazilian counterparts equipment in operation. This took the entire week and was a drain on my productive time. It did however help the Brazilian guys, even though there was a slight communication barrier. We went to paper mills, textile plants, chemical plants and Biopharm facilities. I think I gave them my cold.
4) A is home for the summer, so the drama has increased. She has been here only one day, yet there are conflicts between A and C. Nothing earth shattering, but C was the primary focus and now has to share the spotlight.
5) Item 4 above has created another issue. Since my Intrepid died, we have been making due with 2 cars. Now with 4 drivers, there will be more challenges. I am seeking a new vehicle. It does not, however, make sense to have 4 vehicles with 4 drivers when one of them will be away at school and cannot take a car with them (does it C?). We will only be inconvenienced during the summer months.
6) C's room is now 90% complete. There are some details that need to be completed (like widow coverings), but the paint is done and the closet shelving has been installed. Pictures will come later this week. Think Robbins Egg Blue with white trim.
More soon...
Monday, April 23, 2007
This weeks challenge
I may post some pictures of NY if I get some free time.
Sunday, April 22, 2007
One final thing
We will get is back on Wednesday or Thursday, but for now, that leaves one car.
It really put the clamps on a certain 16YO, kinda like when I was a kid until I bought my own car.
Another thing
A will be coming home for the summer in about 3 weeks.
It has been 11 days
As was indicated on a previous post, C got accepted to the North Carolina School of Science and Math. Yesterday, we went for placement testing, scheduling and orientation. The dorm rooms are normal college size, meaning not very big. Each hall has community bathrooms/showers for about 30 girls or boys. Some rooms are singles, some are doubles and some are even triples.
The facilities are pretty typical of a college campus. The class rooms have the standard desks with white boards instead of the chalk boards to which I was accustom. The buildings condition is pretty good considering many are 100 years old. There is a great athletic facility for the students to use.
The whole campus is wireless, but with many popular sites blocked most of the time. MySpace, Facebook, and a couple of other social networking sites and the usual unsavory (IMO) are among those blocked. Access to the web is limited after midnight until 6:30AM, but AIM is live all night.
All classes take attendance and there is a demerit system if you miss too many. Likewise for missing curfew and check-in time. Much was stressed about safety, given the recent issues ate Virginia Tech. NCSSM has already begun the bidding process for a building and grounds monitoring system of cameras, and all buildings can be locked down from a central location if necessary.
Next year, C will be taking, Physics 1 and 2, Chemistry 1 and 2, Biology 1 and 2, Forensics, Calculus 1 and 2, Spanish 1,2 and 3 and American History (contains both History and English). Given the demands of the courses, she will be busy.
Tuesday, April 10, 2007
Shezin
There is a orientation at the end of the month for placement testing, class selection, etc
The web address is: http://www.ncssm.edu
K and I are also excited for her, but she is our baby and we will be empty nesters in the fall!
Please join us in congratulating C.
Friday, April 06, 2007
Today
Hope your day will have less drama than mine.
Wednesday, March 28, 2007
Sorry about



Saturday, March 17, 2007
It came in the mail
Way to go, A!
Watch out if
This is your only warning.
Thursday, March 15, 2007
I am sorry
We went out to dinner at a Rib place on Monroe St. I spent about 4 hours with Dad before I needed to get back on the road toward Cleveland for my 8AM appointments today.
Dad looked great, and we had lively conversation. It was great to see him.
Hope your day was great.
Tuesday, March 13, 2007
It is with heavy heart :(
The car was in need of several minor repairs, but now is in need of a major repair, probably far exceeding the value of the vehicle. I cleaned out all of the stuff from the back seat and trunk, filling up a minivan with pumps and support supplies. I am a pack rat in my car, so there was much stuff.
I also want to say thanks to my S-I-L LW for the help as the car died near her home in Sandusky and she took me to Toledo to pick up a rental car so I could finish my business trip and get home.
I stopped by
Afterward, I called AW to see if she was available for a short visit. As she was home and not previously committed, I stopped by and spent a wonderful evening talking with her and UJ. It was a wide ranging conversation, from Church issues to politics and beyond. Even though politically we do not necessarily agree, the discussion was very lively and thought provoking, an enjoyable evening for all, I believe.
Here is a picture of AW and UJ that I took while I was there.
Sunday, March 11, 2007
Equal Time, Kinda
Dance Marathon
It is the first full
This and other activities like fixing cars, is what slows down the work on remodeling C's room
Thursday, March 08, 2007
Our House
K and I have gutted her room to the studs, removing her existing closet, opened an exterior wall and are creating a 5x8 walk in closet, making the room bigger and adding much insulation as there was none, the house was built in the 50's (there is that number again). The prep work for the closet was done some time ago and it has been "dry" for aver a year. We are just now getting to the room re-do. We are in the re-assembly stage, having built a separation wall and finished drywalling the new closet.
With the traveling that I do, the projects happen over weekends, so they tend to take a long time. This also means that we live in chaos for a long time. No pictures for now, but I will post before and after when the room is completed.
Wednesday, March 07, 2007
The Hill
I got the best comment from A the other day (I think). She said; "You are the youngest acting 50 year old person I know." How many 50 year old people does she know? And what does she want?
Last Week
The President of WMB is an ok person, but is a person you would picture as an Engineer, sans pocket protector. Dry, not very engaging, technically smart but conversations are strained. Also a strong micro-manager.
I did not discover the real reason for this visit, so had to be on my best behavior for the whole week, really tough to do!
Sunday, February 25, 2007
Possible New School
What you may ask is NCSSM? It is a State funded residence type High School for students with an aptitude for Science and Math. To get into the school, each of the 13 congressional districts are approximately represented equally. This prevents any one High School from dominating due to high achievement area (like Raleigh area or Chapel Hill) The average congressional district initially gets about 25 offers to students, but all must qualify to the standards. There is no backing down the standards.
Should a student decide to decline the offer, the offer goes to the next highest qualifying student, not necessarily from the congressional district. This way, the school gets the best students available, while fulfilling the mandate for balance from each congressional district.
C really liked what she saw, as did K and I. The HS is run like a college, with most classes being chosen and specialty concentrations available. The thinking is that C is really unchallenged in her HS and this will help prepare her for the demands of college. She is the one that chose to investigate this school.
The State of NC funds it, so there is no direct cost. No cars are permitted. It will require a notebook computer.
The people that we saw did NOT look like geeks and nerds. All were very bright kids, but no pocket protectors, slide rules, and the stereotypical crazed looks. It would be like going to a HS where all the kids are high achieving kids. There are many varsity sports to join, like basketball, baseball, softball, volleyball, swimming, all the normal HS sports except Football.
The final advantage of going to NCSSM is that tuition for any NC State funded University is waived for 4 years upon graduation from NCSSM. Books, Room and Board are extra, but tuition is free.
It is a very competitive process, one that has been very interesting for C. Keep her in your thoughts and prayers as she will find out in Mid-April.
Sunday, February 18, 2007
Somebody came home for a day.
Thursday, February 15, 2007
The SAT
Her local HS thinks it is good if the total score is over 1800 (1200 for the math and verbal) and this totals 1930. We think she did good!
Only by attempting the absurd can we achieve the impossible. Have a wonderful day.
Wednesday, February 14, 2007
Work Post, February
My manager talks with us regularly about what is happening, giving appropriate direction, etc. The President of our company says "we must get out of our comfort zone", what ever that means. The President is trying to do the Marketing, National Sales Manager's (3 of them), District Sales Manager's, and Finance (he's a Chemical Engineer with no financial training) jobs, and sending out motivational email telling us the sales performance and that the exchange rate is having an adverse effect on profits (like any of us can do anything about the exchange rate)
The big question to me is: Who is doing the President's job, while he is busy doing tasks his people are to do?
Saturday, February 10, 2007
Another weekend, another swim meet, the last
We are still very proud of her and look forward to doing this again, next year though.
Monday, February 05, 2007
This weekend, Part 2
Cousins B (from NC), J and a brother of Aunt L's did wonderful eulogies, speaking of growing up with Aunt L as mom or sister and the strength of Aunt L, even to the end.
Unfortunately for everyone, I neglected to bring my camera after unloading if from the car from the previous day at the pool (see the previous post), so pictures of Uncle J, B, B, J and their families are unavailable.
To my brother and sisters, I passed along your love and sympathies for Aunt L. I bragged about you, your accomplishments and your families, bringing everyone up to date on your lives and activities as I know them. Uncle J, B, B and J pass along their thanks and appreciation for your love, prayers, support and best wishes over the past couple of months as they went through this illness with Aunt L.
Together, we are all saddened at the passing of a wonderful woman, Aunt L, supportive of Uncle J and our cousins in their time of mourning and comforted in the knowledge that Aunt L is no longer in pain, made whole by the healing power of God.
This weekend, Part 1
In all 3 events C swam (medley relay, 200 Free and 500 Free), she or her team qualified for the evening session. Between sessions, we had reserved our hotel suite for 2 nights, so all of the swimmers hung out in our room watching movies. There were 9 people there, so it was lively with 7 girls and 2 boys.
In the evening session, C qualified for the State meet in the 200 Free. She went low at about the 300 point during her 500 free, missing qualifying for State by 2 places and about 3 seconds, but still cut 3 seconds off her qualifying time. Her relay team also missed qualifying for the State meet, although C swam a great opening Backstroke.
We are very proud of C and the hard wok she put in to do this. On to the State meet, next weekend.
I tried to take pictures, but given how far we were from the action, the pictures are less than useful. Sorry
Tuesday, January 30, 2007
Hey, I didn't
I traveled here last night, but before leaving, I checked Weather.com where they said nothing about new snow until later this week. That is not fair!
However, a coat of new snow makes things very clean and pretty. Hope your day is a good one.
Friday, January 26, 2007
On to Regionals
At the conference swim meet, C placed 5 in the 200 free and 2nd in the 500 free. Just before swimming in the 200 free, she had a BGR of 44 and was cramming food in her face between Event 1 (200 Medley Relay, she swims back) and Event 3 (200 free). She was going low in her relay, but finished fine. Her 200 time was her worst and if not for the low blood sugar, probably would have placed second. She had recovered, and probably was high by the time she swam the 500 free event
We are still very proud of her and are looking forward to Regional Swim meet in Goldsboro, Feb 4
Monday, January 22, 2007
I have determined
I enjoy cherry flavored things, too bad I will not be enjoying them as often.
Saturday, January 20, 2007
New Pictures
Some random thoughts from a recent trip..
At dinner, it was watching many people drink heavily to numb the pain of the day and to begin numbing the pain of tomorrow. Then, back to the hotel bar where those same people drank heavily. Sometimes, it was fun to watch, knowing how silly they looked. I feel sad for them, however, that their personal lives are not full enough without drowning the world with $750 bar tabs. It was good, however, to see one of the guys at the meeting. His youngest daughter, age 27, died tragically on Christmas day and getting together to focus on something other than his daughter seemed to lift him a bit and help the grieving process along. I pray for his strength.
There were 4 of us that did not drink, so if and when we left the Marriott for any reason, we were the designated drivers to keep things safe.
I came back from FL just as white as I went. I guess they did not want us to taste what we are missing. And this is to be a reward for a year of hard work! I hope we do not have a bad year.
Thanks for the cold, whomever gave it to me.
Tuesday, January 16, 2007
Business Activities
Beginning tomorrow, it is boring meeting city. I know, you feel for me!
Pictures from
Sunday, January 14, 2007
I am off to...
I will post the occasional picture as available. It will be 81 for highs, 65 for lows. There will be one afternoon of Golf in Homestead, FL.
Friday, January 12, 2007
Was it something I ate?
I left on Tuesday to go on a business trip to Atlanta, noticing a little more itching. By the time I got to Atlanta, with business stops in Charlotte, NC and Greenville, SC, there were welts on my hands arms and ears. When I got up on Wednesday AM, my left eye was swollen nearly shut. I called my business contact in Atlanta and told him that I was unable to meet with him for the planned sales calls (I looked like a figure from a horror film) and told him I was going to the doctor.
I drove home (my philosophy is that if it is within ~7 driving hours, drive it, because the process of using commercial air service takes 7 hours to get almost anywhere) and went to the doctor.
The doctor indicated that they did not know the cause, called it "contact dermatitis" and gave me a steroid cream to stop the swelling and itching. Occasionally a new blister show up, but when it does, I put some 'roid cream on it and the itching and blister go away in a very short time. So, I am no longer eligible for any Hall of Fame and fear the Grand Jury and Congressional testimony, but I am much better.
No pictures of this, because it was gross. Now to figure out what I ate or touched to caused this.
Swim Team, Part 2
In the 4x100 Freestyle relay, her team was behind about 4 body lengths after 2 swimmers. The swimmer before C made up about half the distance. C was able to help here team finish 1st by a body length. As I said in a previous post, she has heart and competitiveness.
Friday, January 05, 2007
Swim Team
They overwhelmed our team with numbers, being larger than our team by a factor of 3, but we still did well. C placed 1st in both of her individual events, the 200 Freestyle and 100 backstroke. Her relay team got two 2nd place finishes, the 400 Freestyle and the 200 medley relays.
C has such a great attitude about swimming in that she tries very hard in all of her races. She has great heart, swimming hard, even when behind.
I am proud of her.
Monday, January 01, 2007
Happy New Year
Friday, December 29, 2006
Test Post
I have also tried to add a picture of K, from this past fall. Lets see what happens.
Update: A) Mail-to-Blogger goes into drafts, this is good, sometimes.
B) Mail-to-Blogger does not accept pictures at this time, so it is a text only. Bummer
Thursday, December 28, 2006
Christmas Pictures
The above is a picture of my mother-in-law. The above is a picture of K and niece B.
The above is a great (in my opinion) picture of sister in law L and her daughter K.

Above is M, L and K. Missing in this picture is A their son who was off playing with his cousin N.
The above picture is of my Brothers in Law, M, D R and B. This photo was taken at the family party on K's side.
The above picture is of the ladies of K's family, L, K, Mom A, L and J
This is a picture of my nephew N. Please look at N and ignore the feet.
Here is another of A and C. No C did not taste the Champagne. In the background is B-I-L R and nephew M
And a picture of Dad opening his newest technology, a Cell phone from us kids.
Another picture of niece B and one of her husband S below.
Below, Niece K seems to enjoy the present she is opening.
Niece S is also enjoying a present that she opened.

It was a quick trip, up Friday, back Tuesday, but we got to see most of the friends and family. It was good to hear all of the cousins trading stories of their college days, the good and the bad.
Merry Christmas to all.
Wednesday, December 20, 2006
Better Late than Never
Although these are late, I thought I would at least post them to let everyone see pictures I took while in Toledo at Thanksgiving. As shown below, L (aka the King) did not spend the entire time mad! Of course when you have pretty girls holding you, it makes the day a little brighter.
Even though E and J get plehty of publicity, the west coast blogger can be seen, she does exist!



E and the Kentucky blogger get some sharing time.
Sunday, December 17, 2006
One other thing
B has a fully automatic Canon EOS Rebel digital SLR. It has auto-focus and can do many things. However the glass on the aquarium confuses the autofocus, so his prior attempts at pictures were out of focus. B learned how to use the manual focus and to set the aperture for proper depth of field for the aquarium.
I will ask him to forward some of the pictures and post them when I get them.
Digital Cameras
It also helps me remember how things go back together. I am usually pretty good at disassembly and re-assembly, but sometimes back-up is needed. By taking a picture of the before, the after can get back to the way it was designed, with fewer extra parts.
Digital cameras are also good for parts identification without removal. By using the Macro mode, the ID label on parts can be viewed, even when on the wrong side of the part. And if the photo is taken with high enough resolution, it can be enlarged on the computer so that every digit can be interpreted properly.
Digital cameras are great!
Homecoming
There are people to see, shopping to be done and all around disruption of the parents routines to do. All in the name of "it is what I did when I was at UNC!, Duh!"
We are glad to have her and happy that she is enjoying her time at school. Life is fun, and never boring.
Work Post
C has to be either at the school at 5:30Am or at the practice pool (not at her school) at 6 AM. Since I can drive C to either location, get back into bed by 6:15, asleep by 6:20, I really loose no sleep. It is a trait handed down from my mom. Any place, any time, I can fall asleep. But never when driving.
K really appreciates the mandated no travel. Anytime K's feet hit the floor, she will be awake for 2 hours. This allows her to remain at home, saving for the time, after the first of the year when I start traveling again. I am happy to do it.
Last weekend
Attending the party were K's sister Catherine, Mom S, and nephew A. A was the ring bearer at the wedding and is still very cute. S has custody of A while her son and D-i-L are deployed overseas in Kosovo. Also attending the party was V (best man at the wedding), J (bridesmaid) and another couple who are teachers at the local HS along with their children.
The food was prepared by K and S, and all of what I ate was great. The house looked wonderful and the conversation was lively. A good time was had by K and I.




